Medford Friends Meeting

A Quaker Community in Medford, New Jersey

FAQ

We truly believe that each person is cherished and guided by the warmth of God’s love. In a nutshell, we embrace the idea that “there is a spark of the divine in everyone.” Every individual is recognized by God and has the opportunity to establish a personal and direct connection with the divine. Our calling is to nurture this relationship and let it be our guiding light. Within the Quaker community, we use various terms to express the Divine, such as God, the Light Within, Christ, Spirit, Seed, and Inward Teacher.

The Quaker way has deep Christian roots that form our understanding of God, our faith, and our practices. Many Quakers consider themselves Christian, and some do not. Many Quakers today draw spiritual nourishment from our Christian roots and strive to follow the example of Jesus. Many other Quakers draw spiritual sustenance from various religious traditions, such as Buddhism, Judaism, Islam, Hinduism, and the nature religions.

Quakers invite the word of God to be written in our hearts, rather than as words on paper—we have no creed. But we also believe that if we are sincerely open to the Divine Will, we will be guided by a Wisdom that is more compelling than our own more superficial thoughts and feelings. This can mean that we will find ourselves led in directions or receiving understandings that we may not have chosen just from personal preference. Following such guidance is not always easy. This is why community is important to Quakers, why we turn to each other for worshipful help in making important choices, and why we read the reflections of other Quakers who have lived faithful lives.

The emphasis of a Quaker’s life is on the present, on experiencing and following the leadings of the Light in our lives today. Individual Quakers hold a variety of beliefs about what follows our lives on earth.

The Bible is a book close to the hearts of many Friends. Many Quakers turn to the Hebrew and Christian scriptures for inspiration, insight, and guidance. They are valued as a source of wisdom that has been sacred to many generations. Quakers are informed by Biblical scholarship that offers perspective on the creation of the Bible and the understanding we have of it today. Most Quakers do not consider the Bible to be the final authority or the only source of sacred wisdom. We read it in the context of other religious writings and sources of wisdom, including the Light Within and worshipful community discernment. Some Quakers have little interest in the Bible.

Quaker worship is based on silent waiting, where we expect to come into the presence of God.  In this living silence, we listen for the still, small voice that comes from God through the Inward Light.  Worshiping together in silence is a way for a community to be brought together in love and faithfulness. During silent worship, anyone—man, woman, or child—may feel inspired to give vocal ministry (speak out of the silence).  After the person speaks the message, the silence resumes.  Such messages may be offered several times during a meeting for worship, or the whole period of worship may be silent.  Someone will signal the close of worship by shaking hands with another person, then everyone shakes hands with those seated nearby.

For Quakers, sacraments are understood as an inward, spiritual, experience. We don’t have a custom of performing sacramental ceremonies.

Yes! You are welcome to attend Quaker worship. There are Quakers of all ages, religious backgrounds, races and ethnicities, sexual orientations, gender identities, abilities, and classes. All are welcome. We are located at 14 Union Street in Medford, New Jersey